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What Evidence is Required to Obtain a Restraining Order?

### What Proof Do You Need to Get a Restraining Order?

Restraining orders, also known as protective orders, are designed to ensure your safety by restricting the actions of someone who may harm you. However, before a court can issue such an order, you must provide evidence supporting your claims.

If you need a restraining order, you're in the right place. First, read our blog on restraining order basics, which explains what they are and the process for obtaining one. Here, we delve into the specific evidence required to successfully secure a restraining order.

#### What Must You Prove to Get a Restraining Order?

The specific criteria for obtaining a restraining order vary by state, but generally, you must demonstrate:

- Specific instances of abuse or harassment (e.g., sexual assault by an intimate partner)

- A threat of violence or further abusive behavior or harassment

In some states, additional requirements include:

- Being in a qualifying relationship with the respondent (e.g., current or former spouse, intimate partner)

- A reasonable fear of imminent physical violence

When preparing your petition, be precise and comprehensive. Detail specific incidents of abuse, including dates, locations, and any witnesses. For example, rather than saying, "he abused me repeatedly," specify, "on [date], at [location], in front of [witness], he struck me across the face and threatened to kill me." 

File for a temporary restraining order promptly after the abuse occurs to demonstrate immediate danger.

Most courts provide forms to ensure you meet statutory requirements (e.g., contact information for you and the respondent, identification of any children involved) while allowing you to tell your story.

Consider consulting a family law or domestic violence attorney, as they can assist with the petition and offer representation in court if needed.

#### What Evidence Do You Need to Prove Your Case?

At the court hearing for your final restraining order, you'll need to present acceptable evidence, which can be either direct or circumstantial:

- **Direct Evidence**: This includes witness testimony from someone who saw the respondent harm you, which directly proves the abuse.

- **Circumstantial Evidence**: This type of evidence requires inference to conclude that a fact exists. For example, seeing the respondent with a weapon near a harmed person can imply they committed the act.

Evidence may include:

- Your testimony about the harm

- Witness testimony

- Police reports documenting physical harm and repeat violence

- Medical records of treatment for injuries

- Photos or videos of injuries

Proving the threat of harm can be easier. Testify about verbal threats, provide recordings of voicemail threats, or present written threats (e.g., texts, emails, social media posts).

In states requiring proof of fear, your testimony about your fear may suffice, but circumstantial evidence, such as changes you've made for safety (e.g., avoiding certain places, changing locks), and police reports, can strengthen your case.

#### Consider Consulting a Lawyer

These suggestions can help you take the initial steps, but navigating this process alone is not necessary. Legal advice from a family law or domestic violence attorney can be invaluable in drafting and filing your petition. They can also provide court representation if needed. Given the stakes and legal consequences, a consultation with a lawyer is highly recommended. Stay safe, and good luck!

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